Physical development

  • Slow and steady growth continues.
  • Some females may show signs of early puberty.

Developmental changes

  • At this age, children often adopt some 'bathroom vocabulary' – think of all the rhymes about diarrhea! Due in part to the influence of peers, there is a tendency to think of sexual terminology as 'bad' words.
  • Children may ask questions about pregnancy, birth, and babies. They may ask about the father's role in conception.
  • Children begin to know the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behaviour.
  • Become modest about their body. Beginning self-consciousness creates a desire for privacy and embarrassment may also occur.
  • Continuing development of gender identity shown by interests, etc.

Normative sexual behaviours

  • Touches own genitals (some masturbation). This is more likely to be soothing or for comfort. Caregivers can teach about private and appropriate public behaviour.
  • Aligns with same sex peers; less interest in play with the opposite sex
  • Role-playing/exploration games with same-sex peers.
  • 'Grossed out' by seeing others kiss but yet still fascinated by it.
  • Acts silly when anything sexual is discussed.
  • Exposing self to others; "Show me yours, I'll show you mine".
  • Family values and appropriate modeling are very important.

Information on physical and developmental changes adapted with permission from calgaryhealthregion.ca. Information on normative sexual behaviour from CPRI sexuality education manual.